Second Marriage and Second Honeymoon
As special as it was the first time. A second marriage can and should be special. Here are a few ideas here to make this day an unforgettable celebration and loaded with symbolism. Because we all deserve a second chance and why now is it seriously, we are more experienced, more mature, we will not repeat the same mistakes, etc., to conclude a second marriage can and should be special, like the one! The old stigma is long gone, there’s no reason not to celebrate this first day of the rest of your lives. Regardless of what was left behind, this is the beginning of a new and decisive phase, which deserves to be marked with champagne and joy.
Second Marriage : Religious marriage
The Catholic Church does not recognize divorce. You can only go up to the altar twice in case of widowhood or annulment from his first marriage. But if the first marriage has only been civil, there is no impediment to the second is religious (the Church’s eyes, that first marriage did not exist). But beware: if this is the first religious marriage only for one of the betrothed, nothing done. Even if you are single, the Church can not marry someone who, even if divorced, has already exchanged vows earlier this sacrament.
If, not being able to marry by the Church, make sure to give it a religious dimension to the wedding and is flexible in the choice of belief, is considering whether to marry by the customs of another faith. Some travel to the Pacific to marry according to the Polynesian rituals. Others prefer to pronounce the wedding vows Hindus. You can even use the services of priests of ancient Celtic religions …
Second Marriage : Marriage in the Register
Write your own vows
Invite sponsors to say a few words during the ceremony or an older couple to witness the secret of a happy and lasting marriage. Add some traditional rite or gesture that will be expensive, for good luck or simply because. Ask a friend or family member to recite a poem appropriate to the occasion. Choose carefully the music (recorded or live) that will touch the entry, during and at the end of the ceremony. Not necessarily have to be classical music (what about the sound of the song which started dating?)
Second Marriage : My, your and our
In these situations, there are frequently children from previous marriages. In some cases, there may also children of this relationship. This new and expanded concept of family may cause embarrassment. There has to be so, especially on a day devoted to happiness. With regard to children and adolescents, the secret is to involve them at all, so rather than excluded, feel special and indispensable. Some ideas:
Ask them to devise the invitations or favors for the guests (come cheap, unique and endearing). Help them to rehearse a song, a dance or something that can be displayed during the festival. Young children can take the alliances, the petals and rice. Girls with more than 10 years may be bridesmaids. Send make dresses special, with something in common with the wedding dress. They’ll love it!
The big boys can be godparents and older girls, bridesmaids.
If the bride has a child over three years, he can lead her to the altar or the table of registration; If the groom has an older daughter of three years, it can drive you to the altar or at the registration desk.
